Today’s post is going to be a little different and even a bit more personal perhaps. Love is something we all need and want and today I want to talk about that. When we think of love,we think about that person that can complete us and love us as we love them. Everyones definition of love is different but we all agree its a positive thing. I agree love is the most beautiful experience we humans can have. But I also think love can be confused with passion,need,fear,attraction,you see the dangers here? from an astrological point of view this is even more evident. We all have deep emotional needs and just by looking at your moon placement this needs can be revealed to you. But is the person that is going to fulfill this need be the right one for you? not necessarily. You can fall in love and have a great connection with someone but that doesn’t promise a lasting and healthy relationship for you both. So when looking at your birth chart look at it as a whole not just the Moon,Venus or Mars. When a friend asked me once to tell her if she had a future with a boyfriend I realized how important it is to see the whole picture. she is a beautiful cancer sun with Libra moon and rising and her loved one a Scorpio sun. That was all the information I had about him. So I decided to rely on her chart alone and talk to her about her needs and patterns in relationships. In other words,love calls for self understanding more then compatibility with any zodiac sign. If you know who you are then you can build a relationship that lasts and makes you happy. Instead of looking for someone to complete you,be complete on your own. Love should be two people adding more to each others whole and growing better and stronger together. What about passion you ask? attractions is like a primitive compass towards a person that could be good for you. A woman with Mars in Aries would like man that acts like and Aries. It doesn’t mean she need to date one! Instead she can know what she likes and search for that in a partner. Don’t get me wrong,If you know your partners birth chart then that is useful. You should get to know and understand him or her the same way. Don’t search if you are compatible! Instead search to understand him or her in the best way you can.
Here is an overview of what each planet can tell you about love in your life:
Sun: Where you need to take center stage in a relationship,where you feel at ease at the beginning of a relationship.
Moon: The kind of connection you seek and how you react to love,anger,fear in relationships.
Mercury: How do you communicate In love and friendships? what kind of conversation you enjoy and need? Do you need marriage or friendship and a non traditional relationship?
Venus: How do you express love? do you touch,kiss,talk or stay silent with a dreamy look in your eyes?
what kind of environment or values you need to have love? (The perfect woman)
Mars: How to you handle you active life? How you show anger and how strong your sex drive? (the perfect man)
Saturn: Your hardships and your triumphs,the long lasting partnerships.
Jupiter: Where you are lucky in love and what spiritual values you hold.
Rising sign: How you look to potential lovers and how you express yourself when you hide who you are.
Tell me what is love in your opinion?
Do you think astrology should be used to find love? or do you agree its only a tool for self knowing?
Have a beautiful day